Learn more about Abi


Learn more about Abi

Abi Blears - Dating Coach

You’re probably visiting my page because you’re single and want to improve your love life. Perhaps you’ve not “dated” for a while and aren’t confident about where to start. It could be that you feel like all your friends have settled down and you’re beginning to question where you’re going wrong. Many of us are successful in our careers but believe that sustaining a long-term commitment is out of our reach. Others have lost faith in dating and wonder: “Do I want to risk another failed relationship?”

Whether you feel exhausted by online dating, are struggling to forget your ex, or simply want to increase your chances of meeting someone lovely, I’m certified dating coach and I’m here to support you.

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Why choose Abi Blears - Dating Coach?

As a certified dating coach, I provide research-based strategies to help people find and keep love. I work with people who are successful and thriving in many areas of their lives and smart enough to realise when they need a little helping hand.

I'm a Certified Dating Coach

I'm fully trained and certified in Science Based Coaching with the Global Love Institute (previously known as The Matchmaking Institute, New York). I've also completed ICF certified coach training with Optimus Coach Academy and have been assessed as being a PCC standard coach.

I'm an Award-winning Dating Coach

Prior to becoming a full-time coach I worked as a matchmaker for 7.5 years at award-winning matchmaking company Little Black Book, helping successful, smart people find love. I interviewed and vetted their network of singles and have written hundreds of dating profiles.

I'm an Online Dating Specialist

As a certified dating coach, I'm particularly well-positioned to help those who need assistance with online dating.

I won't judge you

Even as a dating coach, I've made more mistakes in dating than I even dare to admit. Mistakes provide us with an opportunity for growth. I vow to embrace your mistakes and not judge your choices.

Find out more about Abi Blears – Dating Coach

I work with both men and women and do not have a preference! I have a tendency to attract people who are looking for long-term monogamous relationships.

Sessions most commonly take place over Zoom. We work on an agreed area of concern. At the end of the session you might be given an optional activity to complete before your next session. Or, you will leave with some actions you’ve committed to taking. This is will help you to move forward and enhance your development. I provide email support between sessions.

In-person sessions are subject to availability upon request. The “How to Approach People in Real Life” and “The Mock First Date” sessions are in-person in Central London.


You were enormously helpful with detailed, specific and useful advice.

I'm so happy with the way you approached my problem. Because you asked detailed questions to get the entire background and understand the whole situation. And only when you understood everything did you offer specific advice that was exactly correct advice. Thank you so much!

Anonymous Client

Abi is great at guiding me through my love life.

Her coaching has enabled me to see clearly what I do and do not want. Her ability to listen and help me reach my own decision has been crucial in my dating life. Prior to her coaching I was so uneasy to get back into the dating scene. She helped me overcome my anxiety and nervousness and now I have a healthy dating life where I am able to meet and converse with new people all the time.

Laura Blair Client

Your coaching is invaluable for both dating and life in general

I wanted to take a moment to express my sincere gratitude for the coaching sessions we have had so far. Your guidance, support, and expertise have had a significant impact on my personal and dating development, and I am truly grateful for the progress I have made under your help.

I am writing to express my strong desire to continue our coaching sessions. The progress I have experienced thus far has been invaluable, and I firmly believe that there is still much more for me to learn and explore together.

Frank Client

Priceless to be honest!

Can I book in two extra add on sessions? You're sadly a victim of your own success Abi. It's been great having in-depth discussions, and having your reassurance has been really beneficial (priceless to be honest!).

David Client

I feel a lot more in control of my love life and the happiest I've been in the last couple of years!

I started working with Abi a couple of months ago and extremely grateful for the steps I have been able to take with her help!

As someone who had lived a pretty fulfilling life in my 20s, I didn't see myself as someone who would have ever needed the help of a dating coach. However, reaching a place in my early 30s, my confidence took a hit when I saw the majority of my friends settling down and getting married, in contrast to me struggling to meet new people..

Abi really helped me get out of my comfort zone, and as a result, I feel a lot more in control of my love life and the happiest I've been in the last couple of years!

James Client

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